I found this problem in a 2019 mathematics competition in Hunan, China. I am a Chinese high school student.
There is a triangle $ABC$ which is not equilateral. The point $H$ is the orthocenter of it. The circumscribed circle of the triangle has a tangent $BK$. The line $HK$ is perpendicular to $BK$. The midpoint of $AC$ is $L$. How to prove $LB$=$LK$?
I drew lines $AH$ and $CH$. Then I plotted a circle with the center $L$ and the diameter $AC$. Suppose the points $D$,$E$ are respectively the intersections of the circle $L$ and the lines $AH$,$CH$. Then I guess that the triangles $LBE$ and $LKD$ are congruent. But I can't prove it.


This problem (original) is easy if you construct the diameter of the circumcircle $BM$.
Notice that $BM$ is the diameter, so $MA\perp AB$ and $MC\perp BC$. Also we have $AH\perp BC$ and $CH\perp AB$. So we have $AHCM$ is a parallelogram. Therefore, we have $M,L,H$ are collinear and $L$ is the midpoint of $MH$.
Now notice that $MB$ is the diameter, it pass the center of the circle, so $BM\perp BK$. Also we draw $LN\perp BK$ intersecting $BK$ at $N$. Since $BM, HK, LN$ are perpendicular to $BK$, we have those three segments are parallel. Furthermore, since we have $L$ is the midpoint of $HM$, we have $N$ is the midpoint of $BK$. So we have $LB=LK$.
For the second problem, your $D$ and $E$ are actually the height from $A$ to $BC$ and from $C$ to $AB$. So $LD=LE$. Furthermore we know that $DE\parallel BK$, since $LD=LE$ and $LB=LK$ we know that the angular bisector of $\angle DLE$ is the perpendicular line to $DE$, thus perpendicular to $BK$, thus parallel to the angular bisector of $\angle BLK$. So the angular bisector of $\angle DLE$ and that of $\angle BLK$ coincide, and thus we know that $\angle DLK=\angle ELB$. By SAS, we know that $\triangle LKD$ and $\triangle LBE$ are congruent.