We define $\prec$ on $\omega_1\times\omega_1$ by $(a,b)\preceq(c,d)\iff a\leq c\land b\leq d$.
Then $x\prec y\iff x\preceq y\land x\neq y$.
Now prove there's no partition of $\omega_1\times\omega_1$ of countably many $X_i$'s where $(X_i,\prec)$ is total for every $i$.
I was thinking of finding an uncountable subset $A$ of $\omega_1\times\omega_1$, then we know there is $x,y\in A$ where $x,y\in X_i$ for some $i$. Then we prove that $X_i$ is not total. But I can't find such a set $A$.
HINT: Suppose that $\{X_k:k\in\omega\}$ is a partition of $\omega_1\times\omega_1$. For each $\alpha\in\omega_1$ there is a $k(\alpha)\in\omega$ such that $|\{\beta\in\omega_1:\langle\alpha,\beta\rangle\in X_{k(\alpha)}\}|=\omega_1$. Choose distinct $\alpha_0,\alpha_1\in\omega_1$ such that $k(\alpha_0)=k(\alpha_1)=k$, say, and show that there are $\beta_0,\beta_1\in\omega_1$ such that $\langle\alpha_i,\beta_i\rangle\in X_k$ for $i\in 2$, $\alpha_0<\alpha_1$, and $\beta_0>\beta_1$. Conclude that $\preceq$ does not linearly order $X_k$.