I have seen two definitions of scale parameter of a distribution: Let $X$ be random variable and $\{{P_{\theta, X }: \theta \in \Theta \subset \mathbb{R}\}}$ be a parametric family of distribution of $X$ indexed by $\theta$
$$1)~~ \theta \text{ is a scale parameter iff} \rightarrow \text{ the distribution of } cX \text{ is in } \{{P_{\theta, X }: \theta \in \Theta \subset \mathbb{R}\}} \text{ for every positive constant c}$$
For example Let $X$ ~ $LogNormal(\theta, 1)~, \theta \in (-\infty, \infty)$ then $cX$ ~ $LogNormal(\theta^*,1)$ where $\theta^* = \theta + ln(c) \in (-\infty, \infty)$. With this definition $\theta$ is a scale parameter.
For the second definition it is required that $\theta$ is positive:
$$2) ~ \theta > 0 \text{ is a scale parameter } iff \rightarrow \text{ the distribution of } X/\theta \text{ is independent of } \theta$$
If $X$ ~ $LogNormal(\theta, 1)~, \theta \in (0, \infty)$ (We restrict the parameter space) then $X/\theta $~ $LogNormal(\theta + ln(1/\theta), 1)$. With this definition $\theta$ is not a scale parameter.
I was wondering which of these two is the correct definition of a scale parameter? Or it depends on the book and the author?
I think both can be seen as expressions of a more general idea of a location-scale family of distributions:
A family of distributions $f(x;\mu,\theta),\; \mu \in \mathbb{R}, \theta > 0$ is a location-scale family iff $g(x):=\frac{1}{\theta}f((x-\mu)/ \theta)$ is free of $\mu, \theta$.
This implies both other definitions
So, $\theta$ is a scale parameter if it transforms like a the scale parameter in a location-scale family (after "centering" by subtracting mean).
Essentially, $\theta \propto \sigma$ (the standard deviation of $f(x;\eta, \theta)$