In what follows, the symbols $a,b$ and $n$ implicitly range over $\mathbb{N} = \{0,1,2,\cdots\}.$
Are there names for the following properties that an element $x$ in a monoid may or may not possess? Both 1 and 2 are implied by 3. Conversely, 1 and 2 together imply 3.
$x^n = 1 \rightarrow n=0$.
$x^a = x^b \rightarrow x^{a-1} = x^{b-1}$ whenever $a,b > 0$.
$x^a = x^b \rightarrow a=b$
Proof that 1 and 2 imply 3. Suppose $x^a = x^b$ and $a < b$, and assume $x$ has properties 1 and 2. Then using 2, we can show by induction that $1 = x^{b-a}$. Thus using 1, we have $b-a=0$. So $a=b$, a contradiction.
Remark. We can define that an element $x$ in a monoid is weakly cancellative iff whenever both $xa=xb$ and $ax=bx$ hold, we have $a=b$. Then every weakly cancellative element has property 2.
I don't know if there is some particular term in the literature somewhere, but the following observation is certainly important: $x\in M$ (a monoid) has your property #3 if and only if $\langle x \rangle \cong \mathbb{N}$.
Rephrased: $x$ generates a monoid isomorphic to $\mathbb{N}$, the free monoid with one generator.
So one might conceivably refer to this in the following way: "$x$ is free," or "$x$ is a free element of $M$."
To say the same thing again, differently: if $M$ is any monoid and $x\in M$ is any element, then there is a unique monoid homomorphism $\varphi_x : \mathbb{N} \to M$ sending $1$ to $x$. All of your properties have to do with this map $\varphi_x$. 1) says that it has no kernel, 3) says that it is injective.