let there be 2 lines: $(2,-3,1) + s(3,-2,1)$ and $(2,-1,-3) +t(3,-2,1)$ which are parallel to each other.
find the formula of the plane determined by them.
my try: a vector perpendicular to $(3,-2,1)$ is for instance $(-1,-1,1)$ since their dot product is $0$. by taking cross product of the 2 we can find the normal to the desired plane which would yield $(-1 ,-4, -5)$ . later we will combine that info with a known point on the said plane like $(2,-3,1)$ to give $-2+12-5+d=0$ and hence $d = -5$. from all this we can say the formula of the plane is $-x-4y-5z-5=0$ . the answer says otherwise so I would like to ask for help here.
There are many vectors perpendicular to $(3, -2, 1)$; there's no reason to suppose the one you picked is related to the plane normal.
On the other hand, the point $(2, -3, 1)$ is on one line (hence in the plane); the point $(2, -1, -3)$ is on the other line (hence in the plane). So the vector between them is also in the plane, i.e., $v = (2, -3, 1) - (2, -1, -3)$ is a vector in the plane. So is the direction vector of the lines, $w = (3, -2, 1)$. From $v$ and $w$, you can find the normal.
Does that help?