Is there a name for an object which is made of a set of objects, and a set of arrows which can be from objects/arrows to objects/arrows (all four combinations)?
Equivalently, this is a category where each arrow is identified with a unique object in the category.
It echoes with the generalized categories of Lucius Schoenbaum. Basically it takes the unisorted presentation of category theory and drops the requirement that $ss=st=s$ and $tt=ts=t$ (where $s$ is the source map and $t$ the target map).