I have the problem $4x^2 -36x = -81$, and I am asked to solve it by factoring. I move the $81$ to the left side of the equation, then divide by $4$, giving me $x^2 +9x + \frac {81}4 = 0$. Since I know that $\frac {81}4$ is the perfect square of $\frac 92$, I can factor this equation into $(x - \frac 92)^2 = 0$. I then take the square root, and the equation becomes $\pm$$(x-\frac 92) = 0$. I turn the equation into 2 different ones: $(x - \frac 92) = 0$ $-1(x - \frac 92) = 0$
So, that means that $x = \frac 92$.
But, $-1(x - \frac 92) = (\frac 92 - x) = 0$, so this means that x also equals $-\frac 92$. I put this through a python program I wrote, and it gave me $4.5$ or $4.5$. Where did the negative come from?
I would say you began to go off track when you said
When you have $(x-\frac{9}{2})^2=0$, instead of taking the square root, you should expand the binomial:
$$(x-\frac{9}{2})(x-\frac{9}{2})=0$$
So $x=\frac{9}{2}$. This is sometimes called a double root.
By mistakenly taking the square root, you introduced the negative term, which was never there in the first place.
You might have been able to see your mistake by graphing the equation. This is a parabola that opens up with the vertex at $(\frac{9}{2},0)$. (A parabola with a vertex on the $x$-axis always has a double root.) The parabola does not cross the $x$-axis at $x=-\frac{9}{2}$. So the graph would have told you the negative answer was incorrect.