I've been trying to wrap my head around different types of pdf.
Do pdfs show relative probabilities?
Take this example of the exponential:
When lamba=1.5 p(0)=1.4
Obviously the probability of something cannot be 1.4
Is this a relative probabilty? We can estimate that p(1)=0.3
is the event (x=0) 1.4/0.3 = 4.67 times more likely to occur than the event (x=1) ?
I suppose I don't really know what a pdf really IS
Is the reason you get values higher than 1.0 on the y axis just a consequence of scaling the pdf so the total area is 1?

A Probability Density Function shows the direction of change in the Cumulative Distribution Function at particular points (the gradient, or "slope", of the curve).
Traditionally we once talked about probability in terms of weights of events. The faces of a fair coin have equal weights, the odds are heavily against a dark horse winning, and such. The metaphor is still useful.
If a CDF is considered the distribution of accumulated "mass" of probability for a continuous random variable, then its pdf shows how "dense" the accumulation is. (Hence the names.)