In tensor notation the change of the electromagnetic field tensor by change of inertial reference frames can be done by the following formula :
$$F^{\alpha\beta} = \varLambda^{\alpha}_{\mu}\varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu}F^{\mu\nu}$$
But when this is represented by matrix multiplications it becomes:
$$F'=\varLambda F \varLambda^T$$ Where $ F'$ is the matrix representation of the tensor $F^{\alpha\beta}$, $F$ of $F^{\mu\nu}$ and $\varLambda$ of any of the two tensors $\varLambda^{\alpha}_{\mu}$ or $\varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu}$ that have the same components.
I guess that in the end i am asking how is matrix multiplication defined in tensorial form, or rather, when and how can i take an expression written in tensorial form and represent it by a matrix multiplication.
In Linear algebra we are told that the multiplication of matrices $C=AB$ can be represent by the following equations of its entries $$ C_{ij} = A_{ik}B_{kj} $$ where the first indices represent the rows and the second indices for its columns for the entries. In your case its actually the same. The RHS of this equations
$$F'^{\alpha\beta} = \varLambda^{\alpha}_{\mu}\varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu}F^{\mu\nu}$$
can be interpret as multiplication of matrices too. You must know that $$\Lambda^{\mu}_{\nu} \quad \text{and} \quad F^{\mu\nu}$$ represent the entries of matrix $\Lambda$ and $F$, by regard the upper index $\mu$ as the row and the lower index $\nu$ as as column. So if you rearrange as $$ F'^{\alpha\beta} = (\varLambda^{\alpha}_{\mu}F^{\mu\nu}) \varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu} $$ You see that the first two represent $\Lambda F$. So if we write $M^{\alpha \nu} = \varLambda^{\alpha}_{\mu}F^{\mu\nu} $, then we have $$ F^{\alpha\beta} = M^{\alpha \nu} \varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu} $$ Now to makes sense the multiplication above, note that $M^{\alpha \nu}= (M^T)^{\nu \alpha}$ (and so for any matrix) so $$ F'^{\alpha\beta} = \varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu} (M^T)^{\nu \alpha}= (\Lambda M^T)^{\beta \alpha} = (\Lambda F^T \Lambda^T)^{\beta \alpha} = ((\Lambda F^T \Lambda^T)^T)^{\alpha \beta} = (\varLambda F \varLambda^T)^{\alpha \beta} $$
$\textbf{Edit :}$
We can also look at this by the following way. To makes sense of this equation $$ F'^{\alpha\beta} = M^{\alpha \nu} \varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu}, $$ we can regard $\varLambda^{\beta}_{\nu} = (\Lambda^T)_{\nu}^{\phantom{x}\beta}$. So now the index $\nu$ represent the row and $\beta$ represent column. So, $$ F'^{\alpha\beta} = M^{\alpha \nu} (\varLambda^T)_{\nu}^{\phantom{x}\beta} = \varLambda^{\alpha}_{\mu}F^{\mu\nu} (\varLambda^T)_{\nu}^{\phantom{x}\beta} $$ This is just $F'=\Lambda F \Lambda^T$. I choose not to use this interpretation at first because in think this can be confusing (about the upper and lower indices of $\Lambda$ and its transpose $\Lambda^T$), but this is more simple and direct as demostrated by many physics text.