I completed my steps like this:
Let's prove our last inequality:
$$a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3 \geq 40 a b c $$
Let, $$m=\frac ba, \qquad n=\frac ca$$
We have $$m^3+3m^2+3m+1+12n^2+5n+5m^2n+12mn^2+8n^3 \geq40 mn$$
Then,
$$m^3+3m^2+3m+1+12n^2+5n+5m^2n+12mn^2+8n^3=(m^3+8n^3+1)+(5n+5mn^2)+(3m^2+12n^2)+(3m+12mn^2) \geq 40mn$$
Finally we get,
$$\color {red} {\begin{cases} m^3+8n^3+1 \thinspace \geq \thinspace 6mn \\ 5n+5mn^2\thinspace \geq \thinspace 10mn \\ 3m^2+12n^2 \thinspace \geq \thinspace 12mn \\ 3m+12mn^2 \thinspace \geq \thinspace 12mn \end{cases}}\color {red}{\Longrightarrow} \\ \\ \\ \color{blue} \Longrightarrow \color{blue} {\boxed{m^3+3m^2+3m+1+12n^2+5n+5m^2n+12mn^2+8n^3 \geq 40 mn}} $$
Equality only holds for $m=1$ and $n=\dfrac 12$.
Q.E.D.
If $a,b,c$ are positive real numbers prove that the following inequality and find the equality condition.
$$(a+b)^2+(a+b+4c)^2 \geq \frac{100abc}{a+b+c}$$
This inequality was presented to the students on a official paper. I will write my attempts very short.
$$(a+b+c)((a+b)^2+(a+b+4c)^2)-100abc \geq 0 \\ 2 (a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 - 40 a b c + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3) \geq 0 \\ a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3 \geq 40 a b c \\$$
We have,
$$a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3 \geq \\ \geq 9 \sqrt[9]{a^3 \times 3 a^2 b \times 5 a^2 c \times 3 a b^2 \times 12 a c^2 \times b^3 \times 5 b^2 c \times 12 b c^2 \times 8 c^3}= \\ =9 \times (2^7 \times 3^4 \times 5^2 )^{\frac 19}\times abc\approx 35.955 abc \leq 40 abc $$
In other words,
$$\text{min} \left[ \frac {a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3}{ a b c} \right]=9\times \sqrt[9]{259200} \approx 35.955 \leq40 $$
You've proven that $a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3 \geq 35.955 abc$.
But you have not proven that $35.955abc \le a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3 < 40 abc$ need ever occur.
For $a^3 + 3 a^2 b + 5 a^2 c + 3 a b^2 + 12 a c^2 + b^3 + 5 b^2 c + 12 b c^2 + 8 c^3 = 35.955 abc$ can only occur if:
$a^3 = a^2 b =5 a^2 c = 3 a b^2 = 12 a c^2= b^3 = 5 b^2 c = 12 b c^2= 8 c^3$ which is easy to show never occurs. [ If this occurs then $a=b$ and $12c=5b$ and $8c^3 = b^3$ so $8=\frac {12}{5}^3=(2\frac 25)^3$. ... Never occurs. ]
Remember the AM-GM theorem which says $A+B+C+ ... + I \ge 9\sqrt[9]{ABC....I}$ has equality holding only if $A=B =C=D.... =I$. If that equality can not hold, that $A+B+C_ ... + I$ must be strictly greater than $9\sqrt[9]{ABC....I}$ and proving $A+B+C+.... + I\ge 9\sqrt[9]{ABC....I}$ does not contradict $A+B+C+.... + I\ge K\sqrt[9]{ABC....I}$ for $K > 9$.