Let $X$ and $Y$ be two normally distributed random variables.
I understand that if $\operatorname{cov}(X,Y)=0$ then they are stochastically independent (right?).
Now, is it true that if $X \cdot Y = 0$ they are independent?, are those two results equivalent?
Note that there are two ways in which $X$ and $Y$ can be normally distributed:
Way A. When each is normally distributed, i.e. $X \sim \mathcal N(\mu_X, \sigma^2_X)$ and $Y \sim \mathcal N(\mu_Y, \sigma^2_Y)$.
Way B. When $X$ and $Y$ are jointly normally distributed. In this case, one could think of a new random variable $(X,Y) \sim \mathcal N(\mu, \Sigma)$. For definition see here.
As is immediately apparent from the definition, Way A is strictly weaker than Way B. So when someone tells you
you should assume (since the keywords "jointly" or "multivariate normal" are missing) that they only mean Way A.
And assuming Way A, the following
does not hold. For counterexamples and some pictures see this. For more pictures and intuition see this.
By the way, assuming Way B we do have
To prove it, show that for any real $x$ and $y$ holds $f_{(X,Y)}(x,y) = f_X(x)f_Y(y)$ (where $f_{(X,Y)}$ is the density of $(X,Y)$ a.k.a. the joint density of $X$ and $Y$).
Now to the second part of the question:
First of all, what is $X\cdot Y$? Well, I see a dot there, is this a dot product? Since the things you plug into it are random variables, I think (see dot vs inner product) that you meant it to be an inner product.
And an inner product (on a vector space $V$ over a field $F$) is just any map \begin{align} \langle \cdot , \cdot \rangle: V\times V \to F \end{align} that satisfies certain properties.
Nothing stops us from defining the following map: \begin{align} \operatorname{cov} : L^2 \times L^2 & \to \mathbb R\\ (X,Y) & \mapsto \mathbb E \Big( \big[(X - \mathbb E[X])(Y - \mathbb E[Y])\big] \Big) \end{align}
where you can roughly think of $L^2$ as the vector space of all random variables (on some underlying probability space) that have finite variance.
As it turns out, the map $\operatorname{cov}$ does indeed satisfy the properties to call itself an inner product.
So in the context of random variables, if someone writes $X\cdot Y$ it is (unless clearly noted otherwise) by definition the same as $\operatorname{cov}(X,Y)$.