Let $T : \mathbb{R}^3 \rightarrow \mathbb{R}^3$ defined by : $$T(x,y,z) = (x-y+4z,3x+2y-z,2x+y-z)$$
How can i find the vector $(x,y,z) \in \mathbb{R}^3$ and the constants $\lambda \in \mathbb{R}$ such that $T(x,y,z) = (\lambda x, \lambda y, \lambda z )$, i stuck i don't know how to start this exercise , please help.
I'll assume you don't know about eigenvalues, yet.
What you have to find are the numbers $\lambda\in\mathbb{R}$ for which a nonzero vector $(x,y,z)$ exists such that $T(x,y,z)=\lambda(x,y,z)$. Why nonzero? Because $(0,0,0)$ is good for any $\lambda$.
This is equivalent to saying $$ \begin{cases} x-y+4z=\lambda x\\ 3x+2y-z=\lambda y\\ 2x+y-z=\lambda z \end{cases} $$ or, which is the same, $$ \begin{cases} (1-\lambda)x-y+4z=0\\ 3x+(2-\lambda)y-z=0\\ 2x+y+(-1-\lambda)z=0 \end{cases} $$ and this linear system has a nonzero solution if and only if the rank of the matrix $$ \begin{bmatrix} 1-\lambda & -1 & 4\\ 3 & 2-\lambda & -1\\ 2 & 1 & -1-\lambda \end{bmatrix} $$ is less than $3$.
Can you go on from here?