I can prove that if the median and angle bisector are the same, then the triangle must be isosceles.
How can I prove that the median and angle bisector are not the same for non-isoceles triangles?
Assume triangle ABC with median AD and angle bisector AE.
Thanks in advance.
Using known expressions for median $m_a$ and corresponding bisector $\beta_a$
\begin{align} m_a^2 &= \tfrac12 b^2+\tfrac12 c^2-\tfrac14 a^2 ,\\ \beta_a^2 &= bc \left(1-\frac{a^2}{(b+c)^2}\right) , \end{align}
to get them of the same length, we must have \begin{align} \tfrac12 b^2+\tfrac12 c^2-\tfrac14 a^2 - bc \left(1-\frac{a^2}{(b+c)^2}\right) &=0 ,\\ \frac{(b-c)^2(2(b+c)^2-a^2)}{4(b+c)^2}&=0 , \end{align}
which is true only when either $a=\sqrt2(b+c)$, which never holds for triangles, or $b=c$.