Let $(M,g)$ be a Riemannian manifold. We would like to define one notion of completeness which captures the idea of "missing points". For example $\mathbb{R}^n\setminus \{0\}$ should be incomplete in this sense.
Now, in the Riemmanian case, the metrig $g$ gives rise to a distance function $d_g : M\times M\to [0,\infty)$ and $M$ is a metric space in the usual sense. This allows us to use the familiar idea of completeness of a metric space. We hence say that $(M,g)$ is $m$-complete (or metrically complete) if the metric space $(M,d_g)$ is complete in the sense that every Cauchy sequence converges.
Now forget the metric space structure and focus just on the Riemmanian manifold structure. The usual thing to do is to say that $(M,g)$ is $g$-complete (or geodesically complete) if every inextendible geodesic is defined on the whole $\mathbb{R}$.
The Hopf-Rinow theorem them says that $(M,g)$ is geodesically complete if and only if it is metrically complete.
Anyway, the question is about geodesic completeness. What we want is to capture the idea that some point is missing. Well it is then natural to pick a curve and ask whether we can continuously extend it to the whole $\mathbb{R}$ or not. If we can't intuitively speaking there's a point missing.
Take $\mathbb{R}^2\setminus \{(1,0)\}$ then the curve $(\cos\theta,\sin\theta)$ with $\theta \in (0,2\pi)$ cannot be extended to $\mathbb{R}$ continuously. Indeed whatever the value we set for it at $0,2\pi$ the curve will be discontinuous there. In a sense: it was going in the direction of a missing point and to extend it, it must jump.
The question is: why do we need geodesics to define this? Why can't we say:
$M$ is complete if every continuous inextendible curve is defined on the whole $\mathbb{R}$.
The point is that I don't get why do we need the metric structure encoded in the requirement that the definition is made with geodesics to capture the idea of missing points.
What is the intuition that we need geodesics/metric structure to capture the idea that there are points missing in the manifold?
Two examples in $\mathbb R^3 \; :$ (A) take the unit sphere $x^2 + y^2 + z^2 = 1$ and delete the north and south poles; (B) the infinite cylinder $x^2 + y^2 = 1$ with $-\infty <z < \infty.$
Examples (A) and (B) are diffeomorphic, by a projection around the origin. (A) is incomplete as a metric space, (B) is complete.