There are two teams that are competing in a series of matches. These matches are a best-of-$x$ format, so after either team wins $\lfloor{\dfrac{x}{2}}\rfloor+1$ the series is over. This is, in essence, a negative binomial distribution.
These two teams play a few different matches, with different $x$ values, and I want to know what the MLE is of $p$, where $p$ is the probability that Team $1$ defeats Team $2$.
Here is what I attempted:
Our likelyhood function is as follows: $$ L(k_i, x_i; p) = \prod_{i=1}^n c_ip^{k_i}(1-p_i)^{x_i-k_i} $$ where $x_i$ notes that match $i$ was a Best-of-$x$ and $k_i$ is the number of matches won by Team $1$.
If Team $1$ won match $i$, then $c_i = \binom{x-1}{k-1}$, else $c_i = \binom{x-1}{k}$. Take the $\log$ of the likelyhood, we find:
$$ \log{L} = \sum_{i=1}^n c_i+\log(p)\sum_{i=1}^nk_i + \log(1-p)\sum_{i=1}^n(x_i-k_i) $$
differentiating this with respect to $p$, and setting that to $0$ to find the maximum, we get that:
$$ 0 = \dfrac{\sum_{i=1}^nk_i}{p} - \dfrac{\sum_{i=1}^n(x_i-k_i)}{1-p} $$ $$ 0 = (1-p)\sum_{i=1}^nk_i - p\sum_{i=1}^n(x_i-k_i) $$ $$ \sum_{i=1}^nk_i = p\left(\sum_{i=1}^nk_i + \sum_{i=1}^n(x_i-k_i) \right) = p\sum_{i=1}^nx_i $$
which leads us to the final result
$$ p = \dfrac{\sum_{i=1}^nk_i}{\sum_{i=1}^nx_i} = \dfrac{wins}{games} $$
From here I was a little skeptical of this result, so I simulated sets of matches for various probabilities of victory between teams to find the numerical MLE.
For example, I did the scenario in which there is are $2$ Best-of-$1$s, and one Best-of-$5$. Team $1$ loses the best of $1$s, but wins the Best-of-$5$ $3$-$1$. Numerically, I found the MLE to be $p\approx .65$, but using the MLE I just found I would get that
$$ p = \dfrac{0+0+3}{1+1+4} = \dfrac{1}{2} $$
The likelihood that we want to maximize for your example is
$$(1-p)\cdot (1-p)\cdot 3 \cdot p^3\cdot (1-p)=3[p(1-p)]^3$$
It indeed has maximum value at $p=0.5$.
Perhaps you might like to check your simulation. If the success probability is more than $0.5$, we should expect the team to win more frequently.