I've been trying to find ways to explain to people why associativity is important. Subtraction is a good example of something that isn't associative, but it is not commutative.
So the best I could come up with is paper-rock-scissors; the operation takes two inputs and puts out the winner (assuming they are different).
So (paper rock) scissors= paper scissors = scissors,
But paper (rock scissors)= paper rock = paper.
This is a good example because it shows that associativity matters even outside of math.
What other real-life examples are there of commutative but non-associative operations? Preferably those with as little necessary math background as possible.
Let $\circ$ be the "function" of $a$ and $b$ having a child. Then $$(a\circ b)\circ c \neq a\circ(b\circ c),$$ where I assume asexual reproduction...