The following $>, \geq$ signs are referred to positive definiteness.
Given an arbitrary matrix $A\in \mathbb{R}^{n\times n} $.
Problem 1: Find a matrix $P=P^\text{T}\in\mathbb{R}^{n\times n}$, $P>0$, such that $A^\text{T}P+PA<0$.
Problem 2: Find a matrix $Q=Q^\text{T}\in\mathbb{R}^{n\times n}$, $Q\geq0$, $Q\neq0$, such that $QA^\text{T}+AQ\geq0$.
Claim: Problem 1 is infeasible (no solution exists) if and only if Problem 2 is feasible.
My question is how to prove the claim?
I try to think of the problem from geometric point of view. $A^\text{T}P+PA<0$ defines a "half space". Problem 1 is infeasible if such half space does not intersect the positive definite cone ($P>0$). Yet $QA^\text{T}+AQ\geq0$ defines another half space whose relation to the previous one is something I cannot figure out. If somehow the second half space will intersect the positive definite cone, then the second problem is feasible.
This question is simplified from a statement without proof in the book LMI for System and Control Theory by Boyd et al, section 2.2. Thanks for any comment.
Update
Actually, the interpretation is given in 1st paragraph of section 2.2.1 and "Infeasibility criterion for LMIs" (page 29).
First, write out the LMI $$P > 0, \quad A^T P + PA < 0$$ in the form $F_0 + \sum_{i=1}^m x_iF_i > 0$. Let $P_1, P_2, \cdots, P_m$ be a basis for symmetric $n\times n$ matrices ($m = n(n+1)/2$). Let $F_0 = 0$. Let $$F_i = \left( \begin{array}{cc} P_i & 0 \\ 0 & -A^TP_i - P_iA \\ \end{array} \right), \quad i = 1, 2, \cdots, m. $$ See here for an example (1st page): http://users.isy.liu.se/rt/andersh/teaching/lmi.pdf
Second, from 1st paragraph of section 2.2.1 and "Infeasibility criterion for LMIs" (page 29), Problem 1 is infeasible if and only if there exists $0 \ne G \ge 0$ such that $\mathrm{Tr}(GF_i) = 0$ for $i = 1, 2, \cdots, m$ and $\mathrm{Tr}(GF_0)\le 0$. Let $$G = \left( \begin{array}{cc} G_{11} & G_{12} \\ G_{12}^T & G_{22}\\ \end{array} \right). $$ Note that $\mathrm{Tr}(GF_i) = \mathrm{Tr}(G_{11}P_i) + \mathrm{Tr}(G_{22}(-A^TP_i - P_iA)) = -\mathrm{Tr}((G_{22}A^T + AG_{22} - G_{11})P_i)$.
Thus, Problem 1 is infeasible if and only if there exists $0 \ne G \ge 0$ such that $\mathrm{Tr}((G_{22}A^T + AG_{22} - G_{11})P_i) = 0$, $\forall i$ or equivalently $G_{22}A^T + AG_{22} - G_{11} = 0$. Here we have used the fact that if $C$ is a symmetric matrix and $\mathrm{Tr}(CP_i) = 0, \forall i$, then $C = 0$ (the proof is easy). Also, $G_{22} = 0$ implies $G_{11} = 0$ and hence $G = 0$ (Contradiction). As a result, Problem 1 is infeasible if and only if Problem 2 is feasible.
Partial answer
Remark: For another part, I do not have a complete solution currently.
If Problem 2 is feasible, let us prove that Problem 1 is infeasible. Suppose that Problem 1 is feasible. Since $-A^TP - PA \succ 0$, we have $\mathrm{Tr}(Q(A^TP + PA)) = - \mathrm{Tr}(Q( - A^TP - PA )) < 0$. On the other hand, we have $\mathrm{Tr}(Q(A^TP + PA)) = \mathrm{Tr}((QA^T + AQ)P) \ge 0$. Contradiction.
Some facts are used:
Fact 1: If $B, C$ are both $n\times n$ matrices, then $\mathrm{Tr}(BC) = \mathrm{Tr}(CB)$.
Fact 2: If $X\succeq 0$ and $Y \succ 0$, then $\mathrm{Tr}(XY) \ge 0$.
Fact 3: If $0 \ne X \succeq 0$ and $Y \succ 0$, then $\mathrm{Tr}(XY) > 0$.