property 1: the probability density depends only on the distance from the origin
property 2: the $x$ and $y$ coordinates are independent from each other
let:
$$f(x,y) = f(r) = f(\sqrt{x^2+y^2}) = f(x)f(y)$$ let $h(x)$ be a helper function such that: $$h(x) = f(\sqrt{x}),$$ $$ h(x^2) = f(x)$$ then: $$h(x^2+y^2) = h(x^2)h(y^2)$$ $$h(x_1+...+x_n) = h(x_1)...h(x_n)$$ $$h(n) = b^n=e^{cx}$$ then: $$f(x) = e^{cx^2}$$ my questions are first why: $f(\sqrt{x^2+y^2}) = f(x)f(y)$ that propriety is true and
why the helper function also works with $n$ numbers? $h(x_1+...+x_n) = h(x_1)...h(x_n)$ since we are dealing with the equation of a circle?
You got confused because there is abuse of notation going on and even the first equality has a few steps missing. Here is a more rigorous presentation:
We seek a two-variable density function $f : \mathbb R^2 \to \mathbb R$ satisfying properties 1 and 2.
Collecting all of these, your first equality should look like $$ f(x, y) = g(r) = g(\sqrt{x^2 + y^2}) = u(x)v(y) $$ and only now you can rigorously think about the problem.