I'm trying to understand why the volume of a parallelepiped whos sides are $s,u,w$ is $ V = s \cdot(u \times w)$.
Even the units of measurement don't add up. The length of the vectors $s,u,w$ is measured in centimeters, the volume is measured in cubic cm.
$u\times w$ is a vector. It is a vector that is orthogonal to $u$ and $w$, but still a vector, so its length is again measure in cms. So overall $V=s \cdot(u \times w)$ means that $V$ is equal to the product of $2$ vectors, so the unit of measurement for $V$ is squared centimeters, not cubed.
I'm struggling to understand how can $|u\times w|$ be equal to the area of a parallelogram. That is equivalent to saying "The time it takes for me to solve a problem is the distance between New York and London."
The norm of the vector $u\times v$ is defined as the area of the parallelogram (scroll down to Geometric Definition under The Cross Product if you click that link)with sides $u$ and $v$. Also, as both $u$ and $v$ have units of cm, their product will have units of cm$^2$ -- regardless of the fact that $u\times v$ is a vector. Vectors don't have to have units of length -- they can have whatever units we like.
So if $\|u\times v\|$ is the area of a parallelogram, then the area of the parallelopiped will just be this area times the height of the parallelepiped ("bases times height" is the formula we use here). So because $\|s\|\cos(\theta)$ is the height of the parallelepiped (draw a picture to confirm this for yourself), the volume will just be $\|s\|\cos(\theta)\|u\times v\| = \|s\|\|u\times v\|\cos(\theta)$. But that's just the dot product of $s$ and $u\times v$.