I know the classic counterexamples which amount to taking a few elements and constructing something like „equip elements $a,a^\prime$ with other elements that are both minimal upper bounds“, but that seems just to be a proof-of-concept. Many „generic“ posets that come to mind, like the substructures of some algebra, usually have a meet and sometimes even a join because they are meet complete.
My motivation is that I want to look some behavior of finite/countable posets, but I realized that in my head, I always imagined lattices like $\mathbb N$ with divisibility.
Example 1 (Easy) All differentiable functions $\mathbb R\to\mathbb R$, ordered pointwise. If $f(x)=x$ then both $f\wedge(-f)$ and $f\vee(-f)$ do not exist.
Example 2 (Difficult) All bounded self-adjoint operators on a Hilbert space of dimension greater than 1, partially ordered by the rule $\mathbf A\leq\mathbf B$ iff $\mathbf B-\mathbf A$ has only nonnegative elements in its spectrum. For the proof, see the paper.