Does anyone know how to find this? I know I have enough information to uniquely generate an ellipse (you only need five points for a conic, I have three plus the slopes or tangents at those points which count as points), but my problem is trying to solve the system of equations that include the derivatives that blow up to infinity because one of the tangents is vertical.
Here are my points and the tangents associated with them.
\begin{align} P_1&=(0,-3);\ \ m_1=+1\\ P_2&=(1,\pm0);\ \ m_2=\infty \; \; \text{i.e. $(x=1)$}\\ P_3&=(0,+3);\ \ m_3=-1\\ \end{align}
Thank you for helping to solve this problem!
A computationally-expensive approach (that avoids solving a linear system of six unknowns with only five variables) is to consider that the equation of the conic through the points $P=(P_x, P_y)$, $Q=(Q_x,Q_y)$, $R=(R_x,R_y)$, $S=(S_x,S_y)$, $T=(T_x,T_y)$ is given by
$$\left|\begin{array}{c,c,c,c,c,c} x^2 & y^2 & x y & x & y & 1 \\ P_x^2 & P_y^2 & P_x P_y & P_x & P_y & 1 \\ Q_x^2 & Q_y^2 & Q_x Q_y & Q_x & Q_y & 1 \\ R_x^2 & R_y^2 & R_x R_y & R_x & R_y & 1 \\ S_x^2 & S_y^2 & S_x S_y & S_x & S_y & 1 \\ T_x^2 & T_y^2 & T_x T_y & T_x & T_y & 1 \\ \end{array}\right| = 0$$
You are given three points, say, $P = (0,-3)$, $Q = (1,0)$, $R=(0,3)$. You need two more. We can approximate them using small displacements along any two of the tangent lines. For instance, $$m_1 = 1: \;S = P + s\,(1,1) = (s,s-3) \qquad m_2 = \infty: T = Q + t\,(0,1) = (1,t)$$
Expanding the determinant with the help of a tool such as Mathematica, yields
$$-6 s t \left(\quad\begin{array}{c} (3+s+3t-st) x^2 + t(s-1) x y - (s-1) y^2 \\ + ( 6-10s-3t+st) x + 9 (s-1) \end{array}\quad\right)= 0$$
Using typical Calculus chicanery, we insist that $s$ and $t$ are merely small, not zero, so that we can divide them out of the equation ...
$$(3+s+3t-st) x^2 + t(s-1) x y - (s-1) y^2 + ( 6-10s-3t+st) x + 9 (s-1)= 0$$
... and then proceed to calculate the limiting form of the equation as $s$ and $t$ become vanishingly small ... by substituting $s=t=0$!
Note that, upon differentiation, we have $$6 x + 2 y y^\prime + 6 = 0$$ which is satisfied by $(x,y) = (0,3)$ and $y^\prime = -1$.