Is the following strong form of Hausdorff equivalent to usual Hausdorff?
$X$ is strong Hausdorff if given distinct elements $x,y$ in $X$ there are open sets $U,V \subseteq X$ with $x \subseteq U$, $y \subseteq V$ and $\overline{U} \cap \overline{V} = \emptyset$.
I think that it is not equivalent, but haven't been able to prove this.
No, this property is called being Urysohn (or sometimes completely Hausdorff), see Wikipedia. There we also find an example (from Steen and Seebach's book) of a Hausdorff but not Urysohn space: the relatively prime integer topology: online explanation.