I'm new to intuitionistic logic, so forgive my silly question.
In intuitionistic logic, does $A \lor \neg A$ assert the decidability of $A$? For example, let's say I don't personally have a proof of $A$, but I know someone who has either a proof or a refutation of $A$, but I don't know which one. Can I say in that case that $A \lor \neg A$ is true?
No, you can't. The intuitionstic meaning of $A \lor \lnot A$ is that you have a proof of $A$, or a proof of $\lnot A$. If you had the proof, you could look at it and decide whether it proves $A$ or whether it proves $\lnot A$. So, if you don't know which option holds, you must not have a proof, and so you can't assert $A \lor \lnot A$.
In general, one way to learn about intuitionistic logic is to look into the BHK interpretation, which gives a (recursive) intuitionistic reading of what it means to prove a formula with any given main connective. The goal here is not to be completely formal (although it can be made formal) - we just want to convey the sense of what a connective means by espressing how to work with the connective in an intuitionistic proof.