We are given constants $m$ and $n$. How many non-negative integer solutions are there for $2x_0+\sum_{i=1}^{m}{x_i}=n$ satisfying the condition that$x_i\neq x_j$ if $i\neq j$?
I thought a good first step might be to get the number of solutions for $\sum_{i=0}^{m}{x_i}=n$ where $x_i\neq x_j$ if $i\neq j$ and all $x_i\geq 0$, but even that seems difficult.
Here is a sketch for how to solve the problem. It is not complete, and yields a solution only in terms of the number of partitions into at most a fixed number of parts, but it gives at least one useful way to think about the problem.
If we denote the number in question by $f(m,n)$, then $f(m,n)/n!$ is the number of partitions of $n$ into $m+2$ non-negative parts so that all but two of the parts have different sizes. We will consider three cases: all the parts are nonzero, the repeated part is zero, and a non-repeated part is zero. We will consider only the first case below. The third case reduces to the first, and the second is similar but simpler.
Let $g(m,n)$ be the collection of partitions of $n$ into an unordered sum of $m+2$ elements with exactly on repetition, and let $\lambda\in g(m,n)$ Drawing the corresponding Young diagram of $\lambda$ and taking the dual, we see that $\lambda^*$ is a partition of $n$ into an unspecified number of parts such that every part size is in the set $\{1, 2, \ldots, m+2\}$,and all but one of the sizes appears with positive multiplicity (while exactly one size does not appear). Let $k$ be the number which does not appear in $\lambda^*$. Subtracting $1$ from the multiplicity of every element in the partition, we get a new partition $\mu$ with the following properties:
Moreover, we see that starting from ordered pairs $(\mu,k)$ satisfying these properties, we can work backwards, adding $1$ to the multiplicities (except for $k$) and taking the dual, and so we have reduced the problem to finding the number of partitions of $x$ into parts of size at most $y$ with no parts of size $k$. This is equal to the number of partitions of $x$ into parts of size at most $y$ minus the number of partitions of $x-k$ into parts of size at most $y$.
Assuming you are comfortable expressing your answer in terms of this bounded partition function (whose closed form I do not know, but which has a very simple generating function), the problem is essentially solved. If not, I am not sure if the solution can be simplified to something that has a nicer closed form.