from what i have seen in my experience with math we can say that
a valid proof is one that uses some form of logic (usually predicate logic) and uses logical rules of deduction and axioms or theorems in it's specific field to drive some new sentences that will eventually lead to the proposition we want to prove .
but we know that most of the proofs given in most of the fields (if not all!) are actually in informal language .
if we accept the definition above then non of these proofs are valid proofs .
how can we extend or change the idea of a valid proof to get to a better definition of a valid mathematical proof ?
We don't need to change, neither extend the idea of a mathematical proof just because many fields uses informal language. This is true that informal language might be more clear to the wide majority of people, but such a language can only be used for an explanation of the idea of the proof. On the other side the formal language is understood by a very small group of mathematicians. While, informal language allows a "bug" in a proof which can be ambiguously understood and lead to a false proofs, this cannot happen with a rigorous mathematical proof. A mistake in a rigorous proof sometimes can be found only by a well trained\experienced specialist of the particular field. This make the life not as simple as we wish, but this is the price we have to pay. I believe that stepping away from a formal\rigorous mathematical proof won't lead to anything good, but ambiguity.