Suppose that $h : X \rightarrow Y$ is a homeomorphism. The homeomorphism $h$ induces a bijection $h_* : \tau_{\small X} \rightarrow \tau_{ \small Y}$ between the topologies of $X$ and $Y$.
My question is: what do we mean when we say that the two topologies $\tau_{\small X}$ and $\tau_{\small Y}$ are homeomorphic? I understand that a homeomorphism $h$ between $X$ and $Y$ means that $X$ and $Y$ are homeomorphic as sets/spaces, but when we say that $\tau_{\small X}$ and $\tau_{\small Y}$ are homeomorphic, aren't we just saying that there is a homeomorphism between some subsets of $\mathcal{P}(X)$ and $\mathcal{P}(Y)$, respectively, which would mean that $h_*$ is not only a bijection, but also a homeomorphism itself? Or have I just got confused between the notion/definition of homeomorphic topologies?
Edit: Also, as I side question, I'm guessing that $h_*$ is the thing which maps open sets to open sets, not necessarily $h$. Is there an example of a homeomorphism $h$ which doesn't map open sets to open sets?
Edit 2: (from the comments) If we have a homeomorphism map $h : X \rightarrow X$, and we give a topology $\tau_1$ to the domain, and a different topology $\tau_2$ to the codomain, is it possible that the domain and codomain won't be homeomorphic?
Many thanks for any answers.
My answers to your two final questions: