Is there an example of a non-associative, commutative binary operation?
What about a non-associative, commutative binary operation with identity and inverses?
The only example of a non-associative binary operation I have in mind is the commutator/Lie bracket. But it is not commutative!
Here is an example with identity element and inverses. On $\mathbb{R}_{\geq 0}$, define $a*b = \left| a-b \right|$. Then $*$ is clearly commutative, $0$ is its identity and the inverse of any $a$ is itself. Yet, it is not associative, since for instance $2*(1*1) = 2$ while $(2*1)*1 = 0$.