I'm having problems answering the following question:
Give a counter example to show that the following statement is false:
For any sets $A$ and $B$, if $|A \cap B| < |A|$ then $|A|>|B|$
Presumably we can't be sure whether $|A|>|B|$ as we don't know how many elements there are in $B$ which aren't shared with $A.$
You're on the right track. See what happens when $A$ and $B$ have no elements in common at all. Can you build a counterexample in this case?