This question has to be divided into the following parts:
The definition of Day convolution in nlab
To define Day convolution, it assumes that $V$ be a closed symmetric monoidal category with all small limits and colimits, and $C$ be a monoidal category.
see https://ncatlab.org/nlab/show/Day+convolution#definition
Notice that nlab doesn't says that $C$ must be symmetric.
Day convolution form a monoidal category in nlab
see https://ncatlab.org/nlab/show/Day+convolution#DayConvolutionYieldsMonoidalCategoryStructure
That means, if we there is a tensor unit $y(I)$, then the category $([C,V], ⊗_{Day}, y(I))$ form a monoidal category automatically.
Notice that nlab doesn't say that $C$ must be symmetric.
The definition of Day convolution in wikipedia
To define Day convolution, it assumes that $C$ be a symmetric monoidal category. (Of course, $V$ must be monoidal category, because enriched)
see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Day_convolution
Notice that wikipedia doesn't say that $V$ must be symmetric.
Day convolution form a monoidal category in wikipedia
It says that
If the category $V$ is a symmetric monoidal closed category, we can show this defines an associative monoidal product.
see https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Day_convolution
Since a monoidal category must satisfy associative law, that means if we expect that the category $([C,V], ⊗_{Day}, y(I))$ form a monoidal category, then $V$ must be symmetric, i.e. $C$ and $V$ are both symmetric monoidal category.
It also provides a proof for this associative law, in which, it seems that the two symmetric /commutative laws be used.
My questions are:
Why the definition of Day convolution in nlab and wikipedia are different?
I mean that, to define Day convolution, why nlab require $V$ to be a symmetric monoidal category, but wikipedia doesn't require symmetric on $V$ and vice versa...
Why the condition of "Day convolution form a monoidal category" in nlab and wikipedia are different?
I mean that, to form a monoidal category under Day convolution, why wikipedia require both $C$ and $V$ are symmetric, but nlab doesn't require this condition?
Why Day convolution need some sort of "symmetric" property?
I didn't see any symmetry intuition from this Day convolution formula:
$F*G = \int^{x,y \in C} C(x \otimes y, -) \otimes Fx \otimes Gy$
PS: I apologize if the question is silly, I'm a category theory beginner, but this definition make me confusion...
Very thanks.
The description on the nLab is correct: $\mathscr C$ does not need to be symmetric, but $\mathscr V$ does. If $\mathscr C$ is symmetric, then the Day convolution tensor product on $[\mathscr C, \mathscr V]$ will also be symmetric. Wikipedia actually does require $\mathscr V$ to be symmetric, but delays stating this to establish why symmetry is important: it's necessary for the induced tensor product to be associative (and hence be monoidal). This matches Day's original setting.
As of the time of writing, Wikipedia does state that $\mathscr C$ should be symmetric, but this is unnecessary. Anyone can edit Wikipedia, so this could easily be addressed.