I really, really want to understand the generalization of metric spaces known as continuity spaces. Unfortunately, I always get tripped up right at the beginning. The problem is that I have little or no intuition for the meaning of $q \succ p$, which appears as Definition 2.2 in the linked article. Reworded ever-so-slightly for improved readability, it says:
Definition 2.2. Assume $V$ is a complete lattice and $q,p \in V$. Then $q$ is well-above $p$, denoted $q \succ p,$ iff for any subset $A$ of $V$, if $p \geq \mathrm{inf} \,A,$ then $q \geq a$ for some $a \in A$.
The logical structure of the definition is straightforward enough, and yet at a purely intuitive level, I don't "get" it.
Question.
In your own words, how do you understand the meaning of $q \succ p$?
What are some illustrative examples that demonstrate how $\succ$ can differ from $>$ and/or $\geq$?
To get a broader context for the well above relation you can consult any introductory text on domain theory. However, the context of continuity spaces is a bit different, and I prefer to have the intuition for Flagg's value quantales come directly from their intended role. So, the way I think about the well above relation is that it solves some nasty deficiencies that $\le$ has, even in a complete lattice. As noted, $\mathcal P(S)$, the power set of a set, is a complete lattice, $0=\emptyset$. But if $A,B>0$, it does not imply that $A\cap B>0$. This is just how sets behave. Now, this is somewhat captured by the well above relation in $\mathcal P(S)$; it may be instructive to find all the elements $A\in \mathcal P(S)$ with $A\succ 0$.
Flagg gives several more consequences of his axioms that show how the well above relation takes care of things. For instance, for any $\varepsilon \succ 0$ there exists $\delta \succ 0$ such that $\delta + \delta \prec \varepsilon $, which is extremely important for metric spaces, since it's the analogue of dividing by $2$, which is used all the time.
It is quite easy to see that if $P$ is linearly ordered, then $\le=\prec $. Again, $\mathcal P(S)$ is an example where the well above relation is very different than $\le$. An important class of examples is Flagg's $\Omega$ construction. It is basically the free locale (or frame) and it is very instructive to carry out the computations in it to see what well above means. In a sense it is the 'correct' value-quantale analogue of $\mathcal P(S)$; the latter is useless for the purposes of metric spaces, while the former is precisely what one needs (to prove e.g. that every topological spaces is metrizable). Generally, $a\le b\prec c$ implies $a\prec c$ and $a\prec b \le c$ implies $a\prec c$ (and so transitivity follows too, since $a\prec b$ implies $a\le b$).